How do you go about getting invited to an orgy?

he hung up talked about the time and day and he said sure. then i ask him is she shy or him and he said no i said good because sometimes janet will get a little tipsey or high and might end up naked and in the pool. he laughed and said hes not sure what would happen if she did.

you will most likely be invited to a couples house a few times to learn what you will do or wont do and to make sure you like each other first. before you get invited to a orgy.

but there has been a few that didnt work out. so most likely your not just going to get invited to a orgy right off the bat. you will find some that ask you if your both straight or bi. the bi male dont seem to be that important. but in most cases they want the women to be bi. and some if you tell them the man is also bi they will tell then just dont mess with other men or sorry your not welcome. yes there are still groups that dont want anything to do with bi males. and yes some orgies involve incest. but those are very privet and you really have to be trusted to join one of them. and in most states those will get you in trouble with the law if they find out and can prove it. and they all have diffent rules. some if i woman says stop you stop right then and there. some allow videoing. none i go to allow it. and in most cases lets say janet didn’t care for this one guy she could turn him down. but in that case his wife would be off limets to me. and after the party we would find out why she said no to him. and then the next time they wouldnt be invited back or we wouldnt go back to theirs.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

anyway after that night we played a few more times and adding a couple of friends from time to time util october then they became full fledge members of our little club. and still part of it today.

i will use two people we met before she passed i worked with him and he was young good looking and met his wife and she was young not bad. and thought my wife would like them both and i heard him talking afew time men stuff about how he would love to go to one. so i told janet about them and it was just starting to warm up and we just cleaned the pool and tessa was spending the weekend at a friends house. so before i left work i ask him if they would like to come to a BBQ and enjoy the pool. he didn’t waste any time called his wife and she ask what she should wear in the pool. and i say i dont care if she goes nude. we do. and i couldn’t see her but i knew she turned about 3 shades of red on the other end. LOL

getting invited to a orgy can be tough. my wife and i use to go to alot and sometimes even host few a year. until she passed away and now its my girl friend and my daughter.

What transforms the philosophical intellect?

buy like my wife and i we was pertty well known around here and didn’t give a damn what people thought.

it turned out she is the one that always wanted to do something like this but he was the shy one. she was hot to 90% of men but i like my women tiny and she looked to to me also just a little to big of tits and ass for my liking. then she walked over to me and said will you undress me so i did then she returned the favor and undressed me. nothing happened right them we both set back and watched his scared ass playing with janet. she had to make all the moves and kelp watching his wife like trying to get the OKEY sing witch he got over and over. it wasn’t until janet went down on him before we started playing around a little.

anyways the best way is get to know people that are open to it. it cant be just one of them it has to be both. of them if they get to know you and like you watch for hints. because where i live in the bible belt its not illegal but it is looked down on by alot of people. so people keep quit about it.

What can I do after 18 cops raided my home, without a warrant, seeking a person who didn't live there and wasn't there, and also went through all of my stuff? The person wasn't on the lease, and they didn't see him enter.

and everyone there will know its your first time and noone should push you to do anything you dont want to.

anyways they showed up she was in a tiny with sun dress. white bra and white panties. he was in shorts and a t shirt. we all did our small talk then went to the pool and after things eased off janet ask her if she wanted to change into something to swim in. and she said i didn’t bring one because i was told we was going to all swim nude. so much for taking it nice and slow. janet said thats fine with me striped and easied herself into the pool and Todd omg his eyes never left my wifes ass. i made sure to tell him right infront of his wife so she would know and could speak up if she didn’t like it. i said that is a sweet ass isn’t it. and said its up to her pointing to his wife saying its up to her if she says ok you are allow to touch it or what ever if you want to. i didn’t have a clue what she was going to say. but to everyones suprise she said if you touch lick or kiss that ass he pointing to me gets to do the same to mine if he wants to. now he is the one turning red. and stood up and i said nope one person is nude everyone has to get nude. he didn’t his wife took charge and pulled his shorts down.and he removed his shirt she she pushed him into the pool.